Bondage...

Bondage is rarely a session in its own right but more an additional aspect of another session, I.e. CBT, corporal punishment, humiliation etc. but nevertheless a very important aspect of our time together

 

Although bondage can be perceived as a punishment and in some cases it truly is, more often than not it is a way I help you submit and relax into our session, if you are unable to move or more importantly stop what is happening you are more likely to accept it and as a consequence find a more comfortable space inside your mind. 

It stands to reason that if you are able to physically stop what is happening to you, you will be constantly distracted by this opportunity. Your own thoughts will keep you firmly in the real world. Which is the opposite too what we are trying to achieve.

 

As with bondage I often gag my subs, sometimes as a punishment, sometimes because I’m fed up listening to their requests for clemency, but more likely, so the sub does not feel the social obligation to make small talk or provide ongoing feedback, again this only serves to put you in the wrong headspace and ultimately ruin our session. 

 

If for any reason you are unable to accept bondage. Then please make that clear for whatever session type it is, don’t just assume that I won’t restrict your movement, because other mistresses haven’t during these activities, I may think it appropriate and will not ask your permission as this would spoil the authenticity of our time together. If this is a problem for you then it is your responsibility to set clear boundaries prior to the commencement of our session.